Why is golf the sport which can, more than any other, bring the most sensible and sanest of individuals to their mental and emotional knees in a single afternoon? Perhaps its because golf, more than any other sport, is designed to leave its players alone with their thoughts for as long as three or four minutes in between their actually having to make the shots which constitute the game.
What other sport not only allows time for mental instant replay, but allows enough time that mental instant replay is inevitable, and usually repeats itself over and over between one stroke and the next? Baseball, as slow as it many seem at times, doesnt. A batter who swings wildly at one pitch has no time to beat up on himself before he has to step back into the batters box and face another. A running back who fumbles a pass, unless it is on a fourth down, doesnt have to stand on the sidelines and beat up on himself until his offensive team takes the field again.
Not only does golf allow time for you to mull things over between shots; it forces you to wait for your playing partners to complete their shots before you have a chance to put you mistakes behind you. And what is happening to you physiologically during those delays? You are almost certainly undergoing what is commonly known as the flight-or-fight response, which is the immune systems reaction to any perceived stress. Youll be flooded with adrenaline, experienced a quickening heart rate and elevated blood pressure, and your muscles will be overloaded with glucose as they prepare you to challenge or flee from the pressure. And thats just the beginning.
So what can the golfer do to keep from being completely unstrung upstairs while awaiting his or her next shot? The obvious answer lies in learning the mindset of the great golfers, who can somehow turn the results of the most disastrous shots into challenges, and rise to the occasion.
These are the individuals who realize in their bones that they are both larger and smarter than that small white object which so often seems to conspire with those odd stick-like objects to destroy their composure, and refuse to succumb to that illusion. They know that a golf ball is simply a golf ball, and a golf club is simply a golf club, and that neither is capable of the evils which are so often ascribed to them.
They dont try to suppress the stress reaction, because not allowing all that pent-up emotional energy an outlet is just a short drive from the winding up in the mental equivalent of the Road Bunker at St. Andrews 17th hole. They simply let it come, because years of practice have left them with the confidence that their physical skills and knowledge of the game will be enough to get them through.
How can you rise to such lofty heights of self-confidence that your long walks down those fairways will neither be plagued with rage over your missed opportunity nor have you giddy with the excitement of a hole well played? Just play, and play, and play, until your golf swing and putting technique are as natural to you as breathing, and feel your confidence level rise.
And when you can head for the course with a smile on your face because you know youre going to be doing something that you can do really well, your confidence will be all the mental toughness you need!